Hey Everyone,
Time is flying by now for us as well as Trent! He is nearing the end of this tumultuous journey at last! On the letter front there isn't a lot to report. Mainly because he was up at Camp Pendleton and they were limited on how much they could write. Since my last post, I've received only one more letter.
He is actively preparing for the Crucible next week. This 54 hour requirement is the culmination of all the work, skill and knowledge the recruits have acquired over the last 11 weeks. It is their final test as recruits and when they finish at 10:00 a.m. on Thursday, June 30, 2016 they will be awarded with their title as Marine. More on that in the next post.
Okay, so I started this post on Tuesday, June 21 and it is now Sunday June 26. Since that time, I have not received any additional letters but I did get a brief phone call on the evening of June 21!
The last letter I received was date 06/05/16 or has he writes it, 20160605. He writes, another Sunday at Camp Pendleton but on this day they are leaving as Phase three recruits. He expressed frustration is still prevalent with the platoon. He said Field Week was pretty fun, stressful and tough but still fun. He mentioned again about the "kids" that just don't care and constantly make mistakes. He noted they've been called the Booger Platoon and/or Garbage Platoon for over a month. He expressed his frustration with this because it's mainly a maturity issue.
He went on to say he can't believe how close the Crucible is and how close it is until graduation. Sounds like he is excited about getting fitted for his uniforms and finalizing travel arrangements. He also said he will find out more about his MOS (Military Occupational Specialty) and if his will get changed when they get back. Then he just talked about details when he gets home, etc. Ended with "Gotta Go and Love you!"
I can't believe it just over a week we will be in San Diego and I will be able to hug him and see his face once again! I'm beaming with pride and cannot believe I am soon to the Mom of a Marine (MoM)!!
Sunday, June 26, 2016
Thursday, June 9, 2016
Day 41 - 61 (May 20 - June 9)
Helloooooo Friends and Family!!!!!
I know, it's been a while, a very long while. As you likely know, David and I just returned from a trip to Italy and Greece. Needless to say, I was a bit busy prior to leaving preparing for the trip. My work-life exploded into a volcano with resemblance of Hell. And of course during the trip posting took the backseat to the winding streets of Venice, wine tasting in Tuscany, seaside village explorations in Cinque Terra and basking in the beauty of Mykonos, Greece.
Let me begin by saying, Trent is taking boot camp by the horns and not letting go!!! We are all beyond proud of his accomplishments to date and I'm happy to report the end is finally in sight!
My next letter from Trent was written on May 22, 2016 and arrived the day we left for Italy. I was so thankful to receive it prior to leaving, I just wanted either Jeff or I to hear something from him before we left for the our trip.
He apologized for not writing in a while and said they cranked up the pressure since arriving at Camp Pendleton. I suspected he was a bit busy! He mentioned they have been working on shooting positions and took two hikes. One was 5 miles with 80 lbs. of gear up and down "hills". I love how he put that in parentheses. That tells me they were small mountains, especially in the San Diego area. He said it wasn't too bad and is relieved because the longest hike coming up is 15 miles. He knows everything he's been doing and what is yet to come has really started to sink in and soon he'll be a marine. He went on to say, then he'll become an infantry marine and will likely be going to war. He underlined "I do not regret my decision to be a frontline warfighter, I'm jus working on accepting it fully". He went on to say, "I'm sure once I get to my unit and bond with the guys it'll be a lot better. I know deep in my heart this is what I was born to do. " I must say, reading that as a Mom, those were hard words to read. He mentioned how he sees that everything they do is geared towards combat and training them to defeat the enemy. He now understands why Marines have the reputation they do, the training is literally insane.
He changed the subject and started telling my about his rack mate who is also from Michigan and how they have become great friends. He is referred to as Grandpa Dave by his buddy and the other guys because he's so old. I'm not exactly sure where the Dave part comes in but I'm certain we will hear about it after boot camp! At this point is was still not happy about his new platoon but is confident in time everything will be fine. He ended with counting down the weeks left - 6 weeks!
While we were gone, another letter arrived dated May29, 2016. This one had a different tone by starting off with wishing me a happy belated birthday. Again apologizing for not writing often but he is super busy. He is still at Camp Pendleton at this point and says it's another Sunday and another new week. He said they completed an 8 mile hike which was brutal also referred to as the "mini reaper". This one was 70 lbs. of gear going up a 60 - 70 degree incline hill. He said the "Reaper" is the final "hill" during the Crucible. Once they finish the Crucible in week 11, they have earned the title of Marine.
The next part was difficult for me because he mentions about signing the Infantry contract and is beginning to regret this choice. Time will tell how that all plays out in the end. The best news in this letter is that he said "firing week was pretty darn fun and I shot expert too"! That is a huge accomplishment and one that he is and should be proud of!
I was reminded AGAIN that he does not want me to make shirts for all of to wear at graduation. I think I have message loud and clear! He also wanted to make sure not parties are planned because this is boot camp, he's not coming home from war. I love that he said, "I'm not doing any of this for the recognition, I'm doing it because I love my Family, my friends and I love this country. He feels that he has changed since being at boot camp and it a change for the better. His focus has shifted from himself to the platoon. He likes helping the other recruits, most of which are much younger. He says he feels a sense of responsibility for all of them. He mentioned the drill instructors recognize his efforts. He signed off with Keep the mail coming!
Trent wrote at the bottom of his letter to read Psalm 91, I have included it below.
I know, it's been a while, a very long while. As you likely know, David and I just returned from a trip to Italy and Greece. Needless to say, I was a bit busy prior to leaving preparing for the trip. My work-life exploded into a volcano with resemblance of Hell. And of course during the trip posting took the backseat to the winding streets of Venice, wine tasting in Tuscany, seaside village explorations in Cinque Terra and basking in the beauty of Mykonos, Greece.
Let me begin by saying, Trent is taking boot camp by the horns and not letting go!!! We are all beyond proud of his accomplishments to date and I'm happy to report the end is finally in sight!
My next letter from Trent was written on May 22, 2016 and arrived the day we left for Italy. I was so thankful to receive it prior to leaving, I just wanted either Jeff or I to hear something from him before we left for the our trip.
He apologized for not writing in a while and said they cranked up the pressure since arriving at Camp Pendleton. I suspected he was a bit busy! He mentioned they have been working on shooting positions and took two hikes. One was 5 miles with 80 lbs. of gear up and down "hills". I love how he put that in parentheses. That tells me they were small mountains, especially in the San Diego area. He said it wasn't too bad and is relieved because the longest hike coming up is 15 miles. He knows everything he's been doing and what is yet to come has really started to sink in and soon he'll be a marine. He went on to say, then he'll become an infantry marine and will likely be going to war. He underlined "I do not regret my decision to be a frontline warfighter, I'm jus working on accepting it fully". He went on to say, "I'm sure once I get to my unit and bond with the guys it'll be a lot better. I know deep in my heart this is what I was born to do. " I must say, reading that as a Mom, those were hard words to read. He mentioned how he sees that everything they do is geared towards combat and training them to defeat the enemy. He now understands why Marines have the reputation they do, the training is literally insane.
He changed the subject and started telling my about his rack mate who is also from Michigan and how they have become great friends. He is referred to as Grandpa Dave by his buddy and the other guys because he's so old. I'm not exactly sure where the Dave part comes in but I'm certain we will hear about it after boot camp! At this point is was still not happy about his new platoon but is confident in time everything will be fine. He ended with counting down the weeks left - 6 weeks!
While we were gone, another letter arrived dated May29, 2016. This one had a different tone by starting off with wishing me a happy belated birthday. Again apologizing for not writing often but he is super busy. He is still at Camp Pendleton at this point and says it's another Sunday and another new week. He said they completed an 8 mile hike which was brutal also referred to as the "mini reaper". This one was 70 lbs. of gear going up a 60 - 70 degree incline hill. He said the "Reaper" is the final "hill" during the Crucible. Once they finish the Crucible in week 11, they have earned the title of Marine.
The next part was difficult for me because he mentions about signing the Infantry contract and is beginning to regret this choice. Time will tell how that all plays out in the end. The best news in this letter is that he said "firing week was pretty darn fun and I shot expert too"! That is a huge accomplishment and one that he is and should be proud of!
I was reminded AGAIN that he does not want me to make shirts for all of to wear at graduation. I think I have message loud and clear! He also wanted to make sure not parties are planned because this is boot camp, he's not coming home from war. I love that he said, "I'm not doing any of this for the recognition, I'm doing it because I love my Family, my friends and I love this country. He feels that he has changed since being at boot camp and it a change for the better. His focus has shifted from himself to the platoon. He likes helping the other recruits, most of which are much younger. He says he feels a sense of responsibility for all of them. He mentioned the drill instructors recognize his efforts. He signed off with Keep the mail coming!
Trent wrote at the bottom of his letter to read Psalm 91, I have included it below.
Psalm 91
1 Whoever dwells in the shelter of the Most High
will rest in the shadow of the Almighty.[a]
2 I will say of the Lord, “He is my refuge and my fortress, my God, in whom I trust.”
3 Surely he will save you from the fowler’s snare and from the deadly pestilence.
4 He will cover you with his feathers, and under his wings you will find refuge; his faithfulness will be your shield and rampart.
5 You will not fear the terror of night,
nor the arrow that flies by day,
6 nor the pestilence that stalks in the darkness, nor the plague that destroys at midday.
7 A thousand may fall at your side, ten thousand at your right hand, but it will not come near you.
8 You will only observe with your eyes and see the punishment of the wicked.
9 If you say, “The Lord is my refuge,”and you make the Most High your dwelling,
10 no harm will overtake you, no disaster will come near your tent.
11 For he will command his angels concerning you to guard you in all your ways;
12 they will lift you up in their hands, so that you will not strike your foot against a stone.
13 You will tread on the lion and the cobra; you will trample the great lion and the serpent.
14 “Because he[b] loves me,” says the Lord, “I will rescue him; I will protect him, for he acknowledges my name.
15 He will call on me, and I will answer him; I will be with him in trouble, I will deliver him and honor him.
16 With long life I will satisfy him and show him my salvation.”
1 Whoever dwells in the shelter of the Most High
will rest in the shadow of the Almighty.[a]
2 I will say of the Lord, “He is my refuge and my fortress, my God, in whom I trust.”
3 Surely he will save you from the fowler’s snare and from the deadly pestilence.
4 He will cover you with his feathers, and under his wings you will find refuge; his faithfulness will be your shield and rampart.
5 You will not fear the terror of night,
nor the arrow that flies by day,
6 nor the pestilence that stalks in the darkness, nor the plague that destroys at midday.
7 A thousand may fall at your side, ten thousand at your right hand, but it will not come near you.
8 You will only observe with your eyes and see the punishment of the wicked.
9 If you say, “The Lord is my refuge,”and you make the Most High your dwelling,
10 no harm will overtake you, no disaster will come near your tent.
11 For he will command his angels concerning you to guard you in all your ways;
12 they will lift you up in their hands, so that you will not strike your foot against a stone.
13 You will tread on the lion and the cobra; you will trample the great lion and the serpent.
14 “Because he[b] loves me,” says the Lord, “I will rescue him; I will protect him, for he acknowledges my name.
15 He will call on me, and I will answer him; I will be with him in trouble, I will deliver him and honor him.
16 With long life I will satisfy him and show him my salvation.”
Thursday, May 19, 2016
Day 36 - 40 (May 15 - 19, 2016)
Hi All,
Life is moving along as are the days in boot camp for Trent. Communication has been limited from him since he his move to Camp Pendleton on Saturday - May 14. I know he was anxious about this because he will begin doing more Marine "stuff". They are instructed on how to use their weapon (M-16 Rifle) with a dry shoot and siting in their rifles among other things. This past week was referred to as Grass Week. They do not use live ammunition this week, that will come in the next week or two. From what I've read, this is an intense time for the recruits. They are focusing on precision because they will be tested in the coming weeks on marksmanship, etc. They MUST get a passing score and the higher the score the better the standing they achieve.
Monday, May 16 was Trent's 29th birthday. In case you were not aware. you cannot join the Marine Corp. after the age of 29. He is considered the OLD man and is giving a great deal of grief from the DI's about his age. Since he was doing "Marine stuff" on his birthday, I'm hoping it was a good day for him! I sent him the birthday card below. I'm sure I will get chewed out for this one. That was not my intent but after his last rant about sending pictures, this one will likely get me in big trouble. Unfortunately I had already sent his card before I received his letter about sending too many pictures. Oh well, just a little more DI grief for him. I had so much making the card and it made me feel like I was giving him a gift for his Birthday!
I'll update again when I FINALLY receive another letter!
Saturday, May 14, 2016
Day 25 -35 (May 5, 2016 - May 14, 2016)
Greetings Friends and Family!
Oh my, I'm so behind in keeping you all up-to-date on the latest Boot Camp happenings and I apologize for that! We have arrived home to Michigan and I'm almost unpacked/organized. The unpacking is easy, the organizing/putting away - not so much!!
Anyway, enough about me and on to the reason you are reading this blog,Trent and Boot Camp! In one word WOW! It's been a whirlwind of happenings, good, bad and otherwise. I'm going to summarize the multitude of letters family members have received.
On 4/27 & 4/29 I/we received letters. He thanked me for writing and sending pictures. Then in the letter he went to talk about how his Drill Instructors (DI's) are being investigated for treating a recruit poorly. Trent agreed he was and they were all IT'd (Intensive Training) for what was considered poor performance. He said each time the recruit didn't perform well, the entire platoon suffered. At one point they were instructed to hang from a pull-up bar for 10 minutes. He also mentioned he gets targeted because of his age. No big surprise there, he was expecting that. He is very much an "old man" there! He went on to say he's doing fine and making great friends! His words: "I'm starting to have a little fun"! In a letter to his Dad he said they are learning some cool stuff and doing Marine stuff. He is drilling (marching) with his rifle. He said their platoon lost 6 people to being dropped or quitting. He said it's really not that bad but sucks having the whole day planned out yet he knows it's all for a reason. He said it's all going by fast and in 10 weeks he'll be graduated!
5/2 (Monday) a letter arrived that said no update on the DI's so he and his platoon are still in limbo. He said initial drill is on Sunday where they compete against other platoons. The idea is to be in total sync and march without error. He said he is struggling a bit with that part and is putting a lot of pressure on himself to perfect it. He said everyone is pitching in to help him get it right, he's just frustrated he didn't pick it up right away! He also mentioned he's been reading scripture and using faith to guide him! His Dad received another letter on 5/4 informing him that he was back in medical for a lung infection and was being tested for pneumonia. He didn't like that he was missing a training day with the initial drill coming up soon. He also confirmed in that letter that his original platoon 2106 was dismantled over recruit abuse. He was moved to 2107 so his new address is:
Recruit Waugh, Trenton J
2nd Bn Echo Co. Plt 2107
36001 Midway Ave
San Diego, CA 92140-2107
He's now on his third set of DI's in three weeks time. He went on to say his spirits are high and he knows it will take a little while to get adjusted to the new platoon. He also said time is starting to go by faster now and physically he's holding up okay. He said they are definitely getting stronger and doing 3 mile runs with circuits. They carried huge logs around the track and doing exercises with them every 1/4 - 1/2 mile and mentioned both shoulder are bruised. He went on to thank his Dad and Anna for all they've done and their support! I must say, it is so nice to read letters with his positivity and gratitude! I'm so proud of him!!
On 5/6 he sent me back a multiple choice survey that I sent to him for fun. It was crazy, random questions about the food, etc. it was cute and fun and he actually answered it! I found it on one of the Marine websites. The last question was my own and I asked him "How are you holding up?" He responded "Okay. It gets better as we go! I have a lot of pressure on me from the "kids" since they look up to me and the DI's love riding me cause I'm old and bald!"
My next letter on 5/5 wasn't quite as light hearted. He asked me to NOT send a picture with each letter even though in a letter early on he said he liked getting the pictures! It's tough trying to do the right thing with no first hand communication! He said he has to show the pictures to the DI and that doesn't look good for him. He's not happy with his new platoon to date and they are being treated as outsiders. He's also upset they can't participate in the final drill with the new platoon, that is a big deal to him. He also let me know he wasn't happy with me calling his recruiter asking about a platoon change. I just called to make sure his mail was going to be delivered to the correct location. On 5/6 he reiterated his frustration about the new platoon in a letter to his Dad. He said the platoon is the worst in the company and he isn't pleased with the guys. He said they (the transferred in recruits) are willing to help the new platoon recruits improve but they don't want the help. He said the original platoon recruits (2107) are terrible at drill.
My last letter received was on Sunday 5/8. He said he's prepping for the move to Camp Pendleton, I know he's excited about that! He also informed me his platoon ended up dead last in the drill competition. He also was on light duty due to a knee issue (ITBS - overuse injury) but ended up only missing two days. He said he's good to go now but wishes they had time to do some stretching. He also mentioned he had swim week coming up and his PFT (Physical Training Test), which are now completed and he's on his way to Camp Pendleton today. I'm anxious to get an update letter on all of that! He went on to say he's excited about swim week and the PFT. He said the dry air, running on sand and 6 hours of sleep is keeping him from getting where he wants to be physically but he's still pushing hard. Lastly he said it's hard to stay 100% motivated when everyone is bitching and getting messed with by the DI's. His words: "I'm just praying we all come together soon".
All in all, he's doing GREAT! I couldn't be more proud of him and all he's accomplished so far!
Oh my, I'm so behind in keeping you all up-to-date on the latest Boot Camp happenings and I apologize for that! We have arrived home to Michigan and I'm almost unpacked/organized. The unpacking is easy, the organizing/putting away - not so much!!
Anyway, enough about me and on to the reason you are reading this blog,Trent and Boot Camp! In one word WOW! It's been a whirlwind of happenings, good, bad and otherwise. I'm going to summarize the multitude of letters family members have received.
On 4/27 & 4/29 I/we received letters. He thanked me for writing and sending pictures. Then in the letter he went to talk about how his Drill Instructors (DI's) are being investigated for treating a recruit poorly. Trent agreed he was and they were all IT'd (Intensive Training) for what was considered poor performance. He said each time the recruit didn't perform well, the entire platoon suffered. At one point they were instructed to hang from a pull-up bar for 10 minutes. He also mentioned he gets targeted because of his age. No big surprise there, he was expecting that. He is very much an "old man" there! He went on to say he's doing fine and making great friends! His words: "I'm starting to have a little fun"! In a letter to his Dad he said they are learning some cool stuff and doing Marine stuff. He is drilling (marching) with his rifle. He said their platoon lost 6 people to being dropped or quitting. He said it's really not that bad but sucks having the whole day planned out yet he knows it's all for a reason. He said it's all going by fast and in 10 weeks he'll be graduated!
5/2 (Monday) a letter arrived that said no update on the DI's so he and his platoon are still in limbo. He said initial drill is on Sunday where they compete against other platoons. The idea is to be in total sync and march without error. He said he is struggling a bit with that part and is putting a lot of pressure on himself to perfect it. He said everyone is pitching in to help him get it right, he's just frustrated he didn't pick it up right away! He also mentioned he's been reading scripture and using faith to guide him! His Dad received another letter on 5/4 informing him that he was back in medical for a lung infection and was being tested for pneumonia. He didn't like that he was missing a training day with the initial drill coming up soon. He also confirmed in that letter that his original platoon 2106 was dismantled over recruit abuse. He was moved to 2107 so his new address is:
Recruit Waugh, Trenton J
2nd Bn Echo Co. Plt 2107
36001 Midway Ave
San Diego, CA 92140-2107
He's now on his third set of DI's in three weeks time. He went on to say his spirits are high and he knows it will take a little while to get adjusted to the new platoon. He also said time is starting to go by faster now and physically he's holding up okay. He said they are definitely getting stronger and doing 3 mile runs with circuits. They carried huge logs around the track and doing exercises with them every 1/4 - 1/2 mile and mentioned both shoulder are bruised. He went on to thank his Dad and Anna for all they've done and their support! I must say, it is so nice to read letters with his positivity and gratitude! I'm so proud of him!!
On 5/6 he sent me back a multiple choice survey that I sent to him for fun. It was crazy, random questions about the food, etc. it was cute and fun and he actually answered it! I found it on one of the Marine websites. The last question was my own and I asked him "How are you holding up?" He responded "Okay. It gets better as we go! I have a lot of pressure on me from the "kids" since they look up to me and the DI's love riding me cause I'm old and bald!"
My next letter on 5/5 wasn't quite as light hearted. He asked me to NOT send a picture with each letter even though in a letter early on he said he liked getting the pictures! It's tough trying to do the right thing with no first hand communication! He said he has to show the pictures to the DI and that doesn't look good for him. He's not happy with his new platoon to date and they are being treated as outsiders. He's also upset they can't participate in the final drill with the new platoon, that is a big deal to him. He also let me know he wasn't happy with me calling his recruiter asking about a platoon change. I just called to make sure his mail was going to be delivered to the correct location. On 5/6 he reiterated his frustration about the new platoon in a letter to his Dad. He said the platoon is the worst in the company and he isn't pleased with the guys. He said they (the transferred in recruits) are willing to help the new platoon recruits improve but they don't want the help. He said the original platoon recruits (2107) are terrible at drill.
My last letter received was on Sunday 5/8. He said he's prepping for the move to Camp Pendleton, I know he's excited about that! He also informed me his platoon ended up dead last in the drill competition. He also was on light duty due to a knee issue (ITBS - overuse injury) but ended up only missing two days. He said he's good to go now but wishes they had time to do some stretching. He also mentioned he had swim week coming up and his PFT (Physical Training Test), which are now completed and he's on his way to Camp Pendleton today. I'm anxious to get an update letter on all of that! He went on to say he's excited about swim week and the PFT. He said the dry air, running on sand and 6 hours of sleep is keeping him from getting where he wants to be physically but he's still pushing hard. Lastly he said it's hard to stay 100% motivated when everyone is bitching and getting messed with by the DI's. His words: "I'm just praying we all come together soon".
All in all, he's doing GREAT! I couldn't be more proud of him and all he's accomplished so far!
Wednesday, May 4, 2016
Day 24 (May 4, 2016)
Hello!!
We have managed to pack up our belongings and have arrived in Jacksonville at Betsie and Bobby's for the day/night. We will be on the road bright and early tomorrow morning on the next leg of our trip back to TC. It is suppose to be sunny and 70's when we arrive on Friday! I am excited about that but Saturday (Derby day) is not as appealing. I'm fairly confident Spring will arrive in MI though!
As promised I have finally resolved my technical issues and Trent's latest letter update is below! From what I've been reading, it sounds as though his Platoon is being in fact being dismantled. We have not received confirmation from him yet on that, but several parents have reported getting phone calls from their recruits with new platoon numbers.
It sounds as though he actually is enjoying it as much as anyone could enjoy boot camp! He is loving the Martial Arts, Pugil stick fighting and the drills with rifles as you will see from his letter.
I'll fill you in on the next post more details about what his actually doing!
We have managed to pack up our belongings and have arrived in Jacksonville at Betsie and Bobby's for the day/night. We will be on the road bright and early tomorrow morning on the next leg of our trip back to TC. It is suppose to be sunny and 70's when we arrive on Friday! I am excited about that but Saturday (Derby day) is not as appealing. I'm fairly confident Spring will arrive in MI though!
As promised I have finally resolved my technical issues and Trent's latest letter update is below! From what I've been reading, it sounds as though his Platoon is being in fact being dismantled. We have not received confirmation from him yet on that, but several parents have reported getting phone calls from their recruits with new platoon numbers.
It sounds as though he actually is enjoying it as much as anyone could enjoy boot camp! He is loving the Martial Arts, Pugil stick fighting and the drills with rifles as you will see from his letter.
I'll fill you in on the next post more details about what his actually doing!
Tuesday, May 3, 2016
Day 20, 21, 22 & 23 (April 30, May, 1, May 2 & May 3)
Good Morning!
I've been a bit busy packing up to head to back Traverse City for the summer. We've been spending time with our Ibis friends one last time until next fall. I'm a bit behind in keeping you up to date with what Trent is doing and how he is doing.
Yesterday was a great day! Jeff and Anna received a letter from him. It was so upbeat and positive, I was so relieved! Now the focus is to keep him healthy so he doesn't have any road blocks or delays to finish the next ten weeks! I will post the letters soon, I'm have technical difficulty and no time to figure it out! Too much packing!
I've been a bit busy packing up to head to back Traverse City for the summer. We've been spending time with our Ibis friends one last time until next fall. I'm a bit behind in keeping you up to date with what Trent is doing and how he is doing.
Yesterday was a great day! Jeff and Anna received a letter from him. It was so upbeat and positive, I was so relieved! Now the focus is to keep him healthy so he doesn't have any road blocks or delays to finish the next ten weeks! I will post the letters soon, I'm have technical difficulty and no time to figure it out! Too much packing!
Friday, April 29, 2016
Day 18 & 19 (April 28, 2016 & April 29, 2016)
Good Morning!
It's Friday and I have a new pep in my step today! I FINALLY received my first letter! Whoo Hoo!!
Trent sent it to Traverse City and after feeling defeated mentally again yesterday, I received a text from Jacquie with a picture and text that read: MI got some good mail today!
As soon as I received the text I immediately called Jacquie and requested she open the letter and read it to me! She did that and then sent me pictures of the letter. I loved that he said share this with whoever! Guess what, you get to read it too?!?!?
It's Friday and I have a new pep in my step today! I FINALLY received my first letter! Whoo Hoo!!
Trent sent it to Traverse City and after feeling defeated mentally again yesterday, I received a text from Jacquie with a picture and text that read: MI got some good mail today!
As soon as I received the text I immediately called Jacquie and requested she open the letter and read it to me! She did that and then sent me pictures of the letter. I loved that he said share this with whoever! Guess what, you get to read it too?!?!?
I feel sad about hearing he had edema but it sounds as though that has been resolved. I'm so proud of him and his determination to keep going!!!
All in all, it's a happy day for me!!
Wednesday, April 27, 2016
Day 17 (April 27, 2016)
I didn't receive a letter yesterday, I'm still hoping one arrives today.
No words are needed for the video below... I love you Trent and THANK YOU!
No words are needed for the video below... I love you Trent and THANK YOU!
I tried to post a video or link here but I was unable to save it to my computer for upload. If you are interested, visit my Facebook page, it's label our troops. It's a pretty cool and inspirational video regarding the service of our military personnel.
Tuesday, April 26, 2016
Day 16 (4/26/2016)
Still waiting for a letter...
I wonder how he is? How is he feeling? How is doing? Is the Drill Instructor tolerable? How are the guys in his platoon? Is the routine setting in? Is it any easier? And so on... Questions, questions and more questions.
I will keep sending my daily letters with encouraging words, motivational quotes, world news, sports news, etc. Just words to distract his mind an thoughts from the daily grind and constant barking of orders.
Today he is scheduled to do circuit courses and bases.
Hang in there Trent, you're getting closer to be one quarter of the way through!
PROUD MOMMA!!!!!
I wonder how he is? How is he feeling? How is doing? Is the Drill Instructor tolerable? How are the guys in his platoon? Is the routine setting in? Is it any easier? And so on... Questions, questions and more questions.
I will keep sending my daily letters with encouraging words, motivational quotes, world news, sports news, etc. Just words to distract his mind an thoughts from the daily grind and constant barking of orders.
Today he is scheduled to do circuit courses and bases.
Hang in there Trent, you're getting closer to be one quarter of the way through!
PROUD MOMMA!!!!!
Monday, April 25, 2016
Day 12, 13, 14 & 15 (4/25/16)
Hello,
Catching up after a very busy weekend. We were spending time with last minute visitors before we leave on May 4 for Travers City.
After my meltdown on Thursday, I received word from Jeff that he received the form letter from Trent. Jeff was kind enough to send me pictures of all the pages, including the letters from the Drill Instructors. I'm not quite sure if I was relieved or more anxious! ;-) Included in the text with photos was a hand written note Trent slipped into the form letter packet (this was snuck in). It warmed my heart to see his handwriting but reading how difficult this experience has been for him so far was sad for me. As I've said over and over I KNOW this is the best thing in the world for him, hands down, without a doubt! With that being said, from a mother's perspective it's still difficult to see your child suffering; it's not a bad thing in any way in this situation, it's just hard.
The weekend was busy so I wasn't as consumed with wondering how/what he is doing, however disappointed again on Saturday when I didn't get a letter from him. On Saturday afternoon I put together a big list of motivational quotes and I will be sending those to him regularly from this point forward. I hope they will keep him motivated and positive.
One thing we have been reminded of over and over on the various websites, written information and Facebook pages is to keep all correspondence positive. Do not focus or mention the pain and frustration he must be feeling and certainly do not pity him, keep it all positive. I've have been making a huge effort to do just that and I hope my letters will be beneficial for him!!
One thing we did learn when he sent the form letter with his address, the mailing address Jeff received from his local recruiter had the incorrect platoon number. Why is that important to note? I wanted him to hear from someone at home as soon as possible, therefore I sent numerous letters to him prior to receiving his "official" mailing address in the infamous form letter. I'm not certain if he received or will receive those letters. At least I was thinking ahead enough to write to him using a Word document and I was able to resend most everything to the correct address. There were a couple handwritten notes included, but a least he will get most everything that had already been sent once, maybe now he'll get it twice!
Sunday I picked up printed photos I ordered, stamps and #10 white envelopes to send his letters in. We have been advised to use only #10 white envelopes to not draw any attention to his mail and cause him to be singled out by the Drill Instructors. The only writing on the outside is his address and my return address. I also included several self addressed stamped envelopes and also a few spare stamps so he should have what he needs to write to others! I've also learned sending him envelopes already addressed will save him time with writing since he has such a limited amount of time each day to himself. All those items went in the mail today!
I was disappointed again today to not see a letter in my mailbox from him... I know one will show up soon, just not soon enough. :-(
If you wish to write to Trent, his mail address is:
Recruit Waugh, Trenton J
2nd Bn Echo Co. Plt. 2106
36001 Midway Ave.
San Diego, California 92140-2106
Catching up after a very busy weekend. We were spending time with last minute visitors before we leave on May 4 for Travers City.
After my meltdown on Thursday, I received word from Jeff that he received the form letter from Trent. Jeff was kind enough to send me pictures of all the pages, including the letters from the Drill Instructors. I'm not quite sure if I was relieved or more anxious! ;-) Included in the text with photos was a hand written note Trent slipped into the form letter packet (this was snuck in). It warmed my heart to see his handwriting but reading how difficult this experience has been for him so far was sad for me. As I've said over and over I KNOW this is the best thing in the world for him, hands down, without a doubt! With that being said, from a mother's perspective it's still difficult to see your child suffering; it's not a bad thing in any way in this situation, it's just hard.
The weekend was busy so I wasn't as consumed with wondering how/what he is doing, however disappointed again on Saturday when I didn't get a letter from him. On Saturday afternoon I put together a big list of motivational quotes and I will be sending those to him regularly from this point forward. I hope they will keep him motivated and positive.
One thing we have been reminded of over and over on the various websites, written information and Facebook pages is to keep all correspondence positive. Do not focus or mention the pain and frustration he must be feeling and certainly do not pity him, keep it all positive. I've have been making a huge effort to do just that and I hope my letters will be beneficial for him!!
One thing we did learn when he sent the form letter with his address, the mailing address Jeff received from his local recruiter had the incorrect platoon number. Why is that important to note? I wanted him to hear from someone at home as soon as possible, therefore I sent numerous letters to him prior to receiving his "official" mailing address in the infamous form letter. I'm not certain if he received or will receive those letters. At least I was thinking ahead enough to write to him using a Word document and I was able to resend most everything to the correct address. There were a couple handwritten notes included, but a least he will get most everything that had already been sent once, maybe now he'll get it twice!
Sunday I picked up printed photos I ordered, stamps and #10 white envelopes to send his letters in. We have been advised to use only #10 white envelopes to not draw any attention to his mail and cause him to be singled out by the Drill Instructors. The only writing on the outside is his address and my return address. I also included several self addressed stamped envelopes and also a few spare stamps so he should have what he needs to write to others! I've also learned sending him envelopes already addressed will save him time with writing since he has such a limited amount of time each day to himself. All those items went in the mail today!
I was disappointed again today to not see a letter in my mailbox from him... I know one will show up soon, just not soon enough. :-(
If you wish to write to Trent, his mail address is:
Recruit Waugh, Trenton J
2nd Bn Echo Co. Plt. 2106
36001 Midway Ave.
San Diego, California 92140-2106
Thursday, April 21, 2016
Day 11 (4/21/16)
It's hard for me to express the feelings I have about Trent being away at boot camp. It's a strange feeling, not that I feel he is in harms way or that he shouldn't be embarking on this adventure, both couldn't be further from the truth. The strange feeling stems from my inability to communicate with him.
I know some don't understand why I'm obsessed with hearing from him and thinking about him and wondering what and how he is doing. I can't really explain it myself, other than over the last 29 years I've never gone more than 3 or 4 days without some type of communication with him. It may have been a phone call, text, email, Facebook post of some sort or even something someone else shared that involved him in some way. But this, this radio silence is very foreign to me. It's not that's I need, want or expect to be in contact with my soon to be 29 year old child on a daily basis, it's just strange to have all communication abruptly cut off.
I have been reprimanded by some to "Just stop, he's fine", I'm not arguing that point in any way because I believe that as well. I've also been told "you're becoming obsessed, stop reading so much. Those other mothers have 18 year old sons, not 28 year olds". Does that mean I should stop worrying and/or thinking about my children when they reach a certain age? Trent has always been very communicative with me, and his Dad. He seems to enjoy sharing events in his life with me/us and to be honest, I enjoy hearing about them. I joke and say "I'm his drive time phone call" but truth be told, I really like that. Maybe I'm the reason it's taken so long for him to find his way, have I road blocked his ability to become an independent, grown adult? Has my need to feel important, loved, and appreciated by my child (children) handicapped him/them? Forgive my ramblings, I guess I've hit that time when I just need to express my thoughts, fears, worries and so on...
I think this has all bubbled to the surface because I just don't know, I don't know what I should or should not be doing. I read and re-read posts other seasoned parents have written offering advice etc. Some coincides with what I've been doing and other comments indicate I'm doing things completely wrong. I don't want to make Trent's time difficult by doing the wrong thing such as sending too many letters, sending letters too early, sending pictures in letters because his Drill Instructor has forbidden him from receiving photos (yes this is a possibility).
Guess what? I've sent letters to the address provided by his recruiter, which will arrive to him about the same time his form letter should have reached one of us that includes his address. This could very well be mistake number one. Mistake number 2 could be the fact that I've sent three letters on three consecutive days since obtaining his address (too much mail could single him out). Mistake number three, I included photos on several pages of his first letter, photos that I thought he would enjoying seeing, some he's seen and others are recent since he left.
Perhaps now, you can begin to see why my anxiety is building and why I anxiously await his first letter. It doesn't matter if it's the form letter or a handwritten letter personalized for just me that first letter from him will hopefully give me/us some direction on how to proceed from here! His Dad and I made a pact yesterday that we were going to hold off on mailing him any more letters until the form letter has been received. And so we wait...
In other recruit news, today he will learn about Tactical Combat Casualty Care in a nutshell First Aid for a fellow Marine during combat.
I know some don't understand why I'm obsessed with hearing from him and thinking about him and wondering what and how he is doing. I can't really explain it myself, other than over the last 29 years I've never gone more than 3 or 4 days without some type of communication with him. It may have been a phone call, text, email, Facebook post of some sort or even something someone else shared that involved him in some way. But this, this radio silence is very foreign to me. It's not that's I need, want or expect to be in contact with my soon to be 29 year old child on a daily basis, it's just strange to have all communication abruptly cut off.
I have been reprimanded by some to "Just stop, he's fine", I'm not arguing that point in any way because I believe that as well. I've also been told "you're becoming obsessed, stop reading so much. Those other mothers have 18 year old sons, not 28 year olds". Does that mean I should stop worrying and/or thinking about my children when they reach a certain age? Trent has always been very communicative with me, and his Dad. He seems to enjoy sharing events in his life with me/us and to be honest, I enjoy hearing about them. I joke and say "I'm his drive time phone call" but truth be told, I really like that. Maybe I'm the reason it's taken so long for him to find his way, have I road blocked his ability to become an independent, grown adult? Has my need to feel important, loved, and appreciated by my child (children) handicapped him/them? Forgive my ramblings, I guess I've hit that time when I just need to express my thoughts, fears, worries and so on...
I think this has all bubbled to the surface because I just don't know, I don't know what I should or should not be doing. I read and re-read posts other seasoned parents have written offering advice etc. Some coincides with what I've been doing and other comments indicate I'm doing things completely wrong. I don't want to make Trent's time difficult by doing the wrong thing such as sending too many letters, sending letters too early, sending pictures in letters because his Drill Instructor has forbidden him from receiving photos (yes this is a possibility).
Guess what? I've sent letters to the address provided by his recruiter, which will arrive to him about the same time his form letter should have reached one of us that includes his address. This could very well be mistake number one. Mistake number 2 could be the fact that I've sent three letters on three consecutive days since obtaining his address (too much mail could single him out). Mistake number three, I included photos on several pages of his first letter, photos that I thought he would enjoying seeing, some he's seen and others are recent since he left.
Perhaps now, you can begin to see why my anxiety is building and why I anxiously await his first letter. It doesn't matter if it's the form letter or a handwritten letter personalized for just me that first letter from him will hopefully give me/us some direction on how to proceed from here! His Dad and I made a pact yesterday that we were going to hold off on mailing him any more letters until the form letter has been received. And so we wait...
In other recruit news, today he will learn about Tactical Combat Casualty Care in a nutshell First Aid for a fellow Marine during combat.
Wednesday, April 20, 2016
Day 9 (4/19/20) & Day 10 (4/20/16)
80 days until graduation, Yes, I'm counting down! Monday, Jeff connected with Staff Sgt. Dejong at Trent's recruiting office. He was given Trent's address to mail letters and letters ONLY! Everything I read on my Facebook sites and the websites state not to mail anything until the form letter arrives with the address Trent has provided. I decided to mail letters Monday and Tuesday anyway. I sent him the journal I've been keeping for him since he left to keep him updated on life's happenings! I knew if I didn't record it as it happened, I would NEVER remember it! Just a reminder of old age creeping in! LOL When the form letter arrives, if the address is different than what I've been sending his mail to, I will resend the journal/letters to the new address, that will ensure he receives them.
I will provide his address here as soon as I have the address from the form letter. As I mentioned before, he would love to get mail from any of you!
I must admit even I run out of things to write (imagine that)! I've been keeping him updated on world news, Red Wing scores and information I think he might find a bit interesting. I've been told, they love to get photos. All letters must be delivered in a white #10 envelop, nothing on the outside except the address. I'm not even going to mail him a birthday card, just put happy birthday inside a letter to him.
I guess this cartoon sort sums up boot camp!!
I will provide his address here as soon as I have the address from the form letter. As I mentioned before, he would love to get mail from any of you!
I must admit even I run out of things to write (imagine that)! I've been keeping him updated on world news, Red Wing scores and information I think he might find a bit interesting. I've been told, they love to get photos. All letters must be delivered in a white #10 envelop, nothing on the outside except the address. I'm not even going to mail him a birthday card, just put happy birthday inside a letter to him.
I guess this cartoon sort sums up boot camp!!
Monday, April 18, 2016
Day 8 (4/18/16)
Well, one week is behind Trent as he entered a whole new world. This world I'm sure, is like nothing he's ever known. A world of discipline, respect, physical pain related to soreness, hoarse voice, extreme fatigue and likely a bit of regret at this point for making this decision. I am confident as time goes on, he will endure the challenges put before him and likely excel in every way. He will come out on the other side, a strong, mature, confident and respectful young man, ready to serve his country; he will be a Marine!
Today his calendar indicates he will be issued his weapon, an M16 rifle. He will learn how to handle and care for it (disassembly and cleaning). He will also spend time in a classroom environment beginning to learn the core values of the Marine Corp.
Today, I anxiously await the form letter with his mailing address.
Today his calendar indicates he will be issued his weapon, an M16 rifle. He will learn how to handle and care for it (disassembly and cleaning). He will also spend time in a classroom environment beginning to learn the core values of the Marine Corp.
Today, I anxiously await the form letter with his mailing address.
Sunday, April 17, 2016
Day 6 (4/16/16) & Day 7 (4/17/16)
Spending time in St. Johns with Betsie and Bobby was helpful in feeling connected with family. I spend a great deal of time reading and researching and learning what I can about what Trent and the other new recruits are dealing with on a daily basis.
I purchased a book - Making the Corps. It is a very detailed description of the boot camp process on Parris Island back in 1997. The first thing I noticed is in 1997 boot camp was only 12 weeks and it now 13. The first week referred to as receiving is separated from the Form stage which he started on Friday when he was moved to Camp Pendleton and met his drill instructors. David and I listened to the book most of the way to and from St. Johns and to be honest, I don't know how anyone survives boot camp! I know understand the phrase, The Few, The Proud, The Marines even more!
Betsie and I spent the day with Bobby's Mom doing some shopping and preparing for their neighborhood low country boil. Ann and Scott (Bobby's parents) brought all the fix in's which consisted of oysters, crawfish, crab legs and shrimp. I learned you suck the head of the crawfish because that's where all the good juice is. I decided to pass on that little adventure, but I did eat the remainder of it as directed! In addition to the sea food, there were also potatoes and corn.
It was a fun experience enjoyed by friends, family and neighbors the only thing missing was Trent...
Friday, April 15, 2016
Day 5 (4/15/16)
Today Trent will move from the Recruit Training Depot and be transported to Camp Pendleton about 60 miles away. Upon arrival the recruits will meet their Drill Instructors that they will be spending the next 12 weeks with. These are the men who while shape them into Marines.
This is also the day he will be tested on his physical ability by performing his Initial Strength Test. This test I'm not overly worried about, he has been tested in the past and has exceeded the minimum requirements.
I have immersed myself in reading and learning everything I can about Boot Camp and what he may be experiencing. I have joined two Facebook pages, one for recruit parents and one for his group called the Echo Co MCRD San Diego. He is part of the Echo company and will be assigned his Company and Platoon in the next day or two.
I also learned that he likely received a shot in the last few days that is referred to as Peanut Butter. The reason it's called this is because the consistency is thick and takes a long time to injected in his rear. Apparently it is quite painful and the pain lasts for about a week. My understanding it is administered to prevent illness due to living in close quarter and consists of high doses of antibiotics. I'm sure he loved that little adventure!
I have been journaling everyday so I can keep in the loop of what is going on in the news, life, etc. He has zero contact about the outside world, he is living and breathing Boot Camp only! I have been including scores the and standing for the Stanley Cup Playoffs and any other lighthearted news I think he would find interesting.
I have learned from my research and group participation that I can call his Recruiter on Tuesday to get his mailing address. If all goes as planned his first letter will be in the mail on Tuesday. Once I have that information I will add it to a post in the blog. My request is that all of you will please write to him. I have learned, mail call is truly their highlight of the day. Imagine how disappointing it must be for those recruits that don't receive much mail. I plan to make sure he receives at least one letter a day! I'm busy writing them now in preparation to send! All I know is that is going to be ALOT of letters and will take some major discipline on my part!! I may need to organize a list of people who will take a day or two so I know one is going out each day. Please let me know if you would like to be added to the list! One last thing about letter writing, please do NOT use colored envelopes, stickers, any decoration on the outside. If the Drill instructors see anything out of the ordinary white envelope, they will single him out and make it a more challenging day for him! I guess this is their form of teasing! ;-)
I'm excited that today David and I will be heading to Jacksonville to spend the weekend with Betsie and Bobby. It will be a welcome change to spend some time with my daughter and help me to not be consumed wondering what Trent is going through at various times throughout the day.
Happy Friday!
This is also the day he will be tested on his physical ability by performing his Initial Strength Test. This test I'm not overly worried about, he has been tested in the past and has exceeded the minimum requirements.
I have immersed myself in reading and learning everything I can about Boot Camp and what he may be experiencing. I have joined two Facebook pages, one for recruit parents and one for his group called the Echo Co MCRD San Diego. He is part of the Echo company and will be assigned his Company and Platoon in the next day or two.
I also learned that he likely received a shot in the last few days that is referred to as Peanut Butter. The reason it's called this is because the consistency is thick and takes a long time to injected in his rear. Apparently it is quite painful and the pain lasts for about a week. My understanding it is administered to prevent illness due to living in close quarter and consists of high doses of antibiotics. I'm sure he loved that little adventure!
I have been journaling everyday so I can keep in the loop of what is going on in the news, life, etc. He has zero contact about the outside world, he is living and breathing Boot Camp only! I have been including scores the and standing for the Stanley Cup Playoffs and any other lighthearted news I think he would find interesting.
I have learned from my research and group participation that I can call his Recruiter on Tuesday to get his mailing address. If all goes as planned his first letter will be in the mail on Tuesday. Once I have that information I will add it to a post in the blog. My request is that all of you will please write to him. I have learned, mail call is truly their highlight of the day. Imagine how disappointing it must be for those recruits that don't receive much mail. I plan to make sure he receives at least one letter a day! I'm busy writing them now in preparation to send! All I know is that is going to be ALOT of letters and will take some major discipline on my part!! I may need to organize a list of people who will take a day or two so I know one is going out each day. Please let me know if you would like to be added to the list! One last thing about letter writing, please do NOT use colored envelopes, stickers, any decoration on the outside. If the Drill instructors see anything out of the ordinary white envelope, they will single him out and make it a more challenging day for him! I guess this is their form of teasing! ;-)
I'm excited that today David and I will be heading to Jacksonville to spend the weekend with Betsie and Bobby. It will be a welcome change to spend some time with my daughter and help me to not be consumed wondering what Trent is going through at various times throughout the day.
Happy Friday!
Thursday, April 14, 2016
Tuesday, April 12, 2016
Day 2 (4/12/16)
Not much to report today other than Trent called his Dad at 11:20 p.m. last night. He read the scripted message. His Dad texted me at 11:23 and said he sounded good!
Here's an idea of what he endured last night upon arrival:
Day two involves more intake such as physicals, uniforms, etc. I'm sure it's a whirlwind for him right now!
Here's an idea of what he endured last night upon arrival:
Day two involves more intake such as physicals, uniforms, etc. I'm sure it's a whirlwind for him right now!
Monday, April 11, 2016
Day ONE (April 11, 2016)
Good Morning, this is the day!
My morning began at 6:00 a.m. with my first text from Trent asking if I received login documents he sent minutes before midnight last night for his online accounts. I immediately responded knowing his phone was scheduled to be turned off and was surprised I was receiving a text at all. Further text message communication ensued with me telling him how proud of I am of him and how much I love him. One of the most heartwarming texts he sent read "I can't believe I'm finally doing it 11 years later".
His "Good Luck" party was a huge success that his Dad and Anna threw for him on Saturday night. I wish I would have been there to celebrate with him! His buddy Brad drove 8 hours from Kentucky to surprise him and returned back the next day for work. All of his best buddies, family and friends showed up to rally around him providing love and support.
My morning began at 6:00 a.m. with my first text from Trent asking if I received login documents he sent minutes before midnight last night for his online accounts. I immediately responded knowing his phone was scheduled to be turned off and was surprised I was receiving a text at all. Further text message communication ensued with me telling him how proud of I am of him and how much I love him. One of the most heartwarming texts he sent read "I can't believe I'm finally doing it 11 years later".
His "Good Luck" party was a huge success that his Dad and Anna threw for him on Saturday night. I wish I would have been there to celebrate with him! His buddy Brad drove 8 hours from Kentucky to surprise him and returned back the next day for work. All of his best buddies, family and friends showed up to rally around him providing love and support.
Trent and his Dad (Jeff) 4/9/16
Sunday he arrived at the office for a briefing at 11:30 a.m.. Originally he would have left leaving on the shuttle following the meeting for Lansing but his buddy Tom agreed to drive him there. First stop in Lansing was to spend some time with his cousin Niki and her family. He loves seeing them, especially her two boys, William and Andrew! When it was time to leave their house for his 5:00 meeting the reality was setting in along with a bit of anxiety. Thankfully they were able to squeeze in a picture.
Andrew, William, Jason, Trent, Niki
I learned he will be traveling with 3 other recruits and a buddy system was put in place; his buddy will also be his bunk mate in boot camp. The shuttle arrived at 6:30 a.m. to transport him to MEPS for the final preparation before leaving for San Diego. His Dad arrived by 8:30 a.m. to accompany him through another swearing in ceremony, airport departure with final hugs and well wishes! He completed his swearing in at 10:00 a.m. and signed his contract. I received a text from him from his Dad's phone. It read: "It's me mom. Dad took a bunch of pictures. I'm not a civilian anymore"... WOW!!!! Followed by, him telling me there is no reason to cry, I explained they are tears of happiness and pride. I said, "You are starting to live your dream" and he replied "that I am".
April 11, 2016
This young man is off to begin living his dream, to make a difference and to serve his country.
Honor, Courage, Commitment - Semper Fi
Boot Camp Preparation Week
As the week draws near an end, I am filled with so many emotions. My heart is bursting with pride and also breaking at the same time. I know this sounds ridiculous, but I have NEVER gone more than a week or two without some type of communication with Trent in nearly 29 years! So, to say the transition will be strange is a understatement not just for me/us but for Trent as well I'm sure! I know he is about to begin the most rewarding journey of his life and will finish a strong, confident, mature man, and for that I am incredibly grateful. This experience is truly an answer to prayer.
The beginning of the week started with Trent being called into the office to complete another round of paperwork. He was advised by his recruiter this week should be low key. Workouts should be on his own and just enough to stay active but nothing strenuous. They want him rested and free of any muscle soreness upon his arrival to San Diego.
I received a call from him mid-week when he was commenting on how strange it felt to be packing up his things for storage. He knows it will be several months before any of those things are needed again. He will return for leave in July after boot camp for only 10 days. He will start the first 5 days in Traverse City with David and me and then finish the last 5 days in Freeland with is Dad and Anna. During his time in Freeland, he plans to attend warrior training with the recruits as a new Marine! Following his leave he will return to San Diego for infantry training.
As the week progressed, I immersed myself in reading & learning all I could about boot camp. I read and re-read numerous articles on RecruitParents.com. I joined Facebook pages and signed up for newsletters. Probably the most moving piece of information I encountered was a YouTube video I watched named Earning the Title Marine:
That video made me realize what this young man is about to endure and shed new light on how difficult the next thirteen weeks will be for him or anyone that chooses this path. WOW! As I watched the video, my anxiety level began to escalate and my eyes filled with tears and suddenly this momma bear wanted to protect her cub just like I did when he was a child! As the tears began to fall, I reminded myself what a heroic choice he has made to serve his country. My anxious tears turned to tears of pride, and my anxiety was subdued with thoughts of graduation. I also reminded myself that many young boys/men just like him have already completed this journey and survived it and he will too! I continue to focus on the positive and put my mothering instincts aside and face the reality Trent is no longer my baby but a MAN who will be honored for service to his country.
The work week ended with a phone call received by Trent from Washington D.C., the FBI to be exact! He was told to report to the office on Friday for a meeting with an FBI agent to discuss the last 7 years of his life. Trent followed up with a call to SGT. Parker asking him why he was being interviewed! He was informed that it is common for recruits to be randomly chosen for interviews. I was relived but still found it a bit unnerving to think about an FBI interview. He completed his interview and went home to watch the Master's and help prepare for his "Good Luck'" party.
Sunday he will arrive at the office at 11:00 a.m. to board the shuttle to Lansing. He has planned to spend Sunday afternoon/evening with his cousin Niki and her family. Being with family will help to keep him grounded and occupied versus spending his free time in the hotel. Two meetings are scheduled for Sunday evening, one just for Marine recruits and another for all recruits staying at the hotel. Monday morning he is out the door bright and early (6:30 a.m.) to be shuttled to MEPS. Upon arrival he will be sworn in again and at some point be shuttled to the airport for departure to San Diego. Thankfully, his Dad will arrive Monday morning to be with him as he prepares to embark on this journey. I wish I were going to be there as well to tell him in person how proud I am of him, but for now he will need to hear it in my voice and see me via Facetime as I wish him well and extend a virtual momma bear hug and kiss for luck!
And now, we count down the hours until he boards that bus for the airport on Monday...
I did not publish this post until today (Monday, April 11) after Trent was on his way even though I composed it on Saturday, April 9. I didn't want him to know the emotional roller coaster this has been for me, he didn't need to be concerned how I was feeling or how bittersweet this experience has been and will continue to be for me. This entire journey is about him as he makes his way to becoming the strong, confident man he is about to transform into.
The beginning of the week started with Trent being called into the office to complete another round of paperwork. He was advised by his recruiter this week should be low key. Workouts should be on his own and just enough to stay active but nothing strenuous. They want him rested and free of any muscle soreness upon his arrival to San Diego.
I received a call from him mid-week when he was commenting on how strange it felt to be packing up his things for storage. He knows it will be several months before any of those things are needed again. He will return for leave in July after boot camp for only 10 days. He will start the first 5 days in Traverse City with David and me and then finish the last 5 days in Freeland with is Dad and Anna. During his time in Freeland, he plans to attend warrior training with the recruits as a new Marine! Following his leave he will return to San Diego for infantry training.
As the week progressed, I immersed myself in reading & learning all I could about boot camp. I read and re-read numerous articles on RecruitParents.com. I joined Facebook pages and signed up for newsletters. Probably the most moving piece of information I encountered was a YouTube video I watched named Earning the Title Marine:
That video made me realize what this young man is about to endure and shed new light on how difficult the next thirteen weeks will be for him or anyone that chooses this path. WOW! As I watched the video, my anxiety level began to escalate and my eyes filled with tears and suddenly this momma bear wanted to protect her cub just like I did when he was a child! As the tears began to fall, I reminded myself what a heroic choice he has made to serve his country. My anxious tears turned to tears of pride, and my anxiety was subdued with thoughts of graduation. I also reminded myself that many young boys/men just like him have already completed this journey and survived it and he will too! I continue to focus on the positive and put my mothering instincts aside and face the reality Trent is no longer my baby but a MAN who will be honored for service to his country.
The work week ended with a phone call received by Trent from Washington D.C., the FBI to be exact! He was told to report to the office on Friday for a meeting with an FBI agent to discuss the last 7 years of his life. Trent followed up with a call to SGT. Parker asking him why he was being interviewed! He was informed that it is common for recruits to be randomly chosen for interviews. I was relived but still found it a bit unnerving to think about an FBI interview. He completed his interview and went home to watch the Master's and help prepare for his "Good Luck'" party.
Sunday he will arrive at the office at 11:00 a.m. to board the shuttle to Lansing. He has planned to spend Sunday afternoon/evening with his cousin Niki and her family. Being with family will help to keep him grounded and occupied versus spending his free time in the hotel. Two meetings are scheduled for Sunday evening, one just for Marine recruits and another for all recruits staying at the hotel. Monday morning he is out the door bright and early (6:30 a.m.) to be shuttled to MEPS. Upon arrival he will be sworn in again and at some point be shuttled to the airport for departure to San Diego. Thankfully, his Dad will arrive Monday morning to be with him as he prepares to embark on this journey. I wish I were going to be there as well to tell him in person how proud I am of him, but for now he will need to hear it in my voice and see me via Facetime as I wish him well and extend a virtual momma bear hug and kiss for luck!
And now, we count down the hours until he boards that bus for the airport on Monday...
I did not publish this post until today (Monday, April 11) after Trent was on his way even though I composed it on Saturday, April 9. I didn't want him to know the emotional roller coaster this has been for me, he didn't need to be concerned how I was feeling or how bittersweet this experience has been and will continue to be for me. This entire journey is about him as he makes his way to becoming the strong, confident man he is about to transform into.
Monday, April 4, 2016
Decision to Acceptance
It has been quite a journey from the time Trent met with is recruiter until the day he was sworn in and signed his contract. There have been a multitude of ups and downs but each day we are one day closer to the start of his new "career".
Soon after meeting with his recruiter in December, he went to Bay City to take his ASVAB (Armed Services Vocational Aptitude Battery) test for placement. We were all pleased with his score of 92 which would help ensure he would be accepted.
Training began in late December with his first introduction to warrior training on a Thursday afternoon. What was detailed to me sounded grueling, and this was only training! Thankfully he has stayed physically active throughout his life, so he was able to take on the challenge and feel confident that warrior training would get easier; and it did! In addition to warrior training on Thursday afternoons, he also began showing up for daily workout sessions at the office with other recruits to build up his endurance and strength.
Next was his first trip to MEPS (Military Entrance Processing Station) in Lansing for his physical in mid January. His journey to MEPS began on Monday morning leaving from the office via a contracted government van with other recruits. The process is, the recruits are dropped off at a hotel where they may room with another recruit. They are on their own until 6:30 a.m. the next morning when they are picked up and delivered to MEPS. Each recruit may have a different purpose upon arriving at MEPS. Some may be there to be sworn in, others to ship out and some, such as Trent for physicals, etc.
Following MEPS our first waiting period began... Trent was flagged with a medical issue that could have prevented him from being accepted due to a kidney stone he had 8 years earlier. The doctor performing the exam cleared him, however it was headquarters that needed to give the final approval. The waiting time would be 2-6 weeks. This news was disheartening considering Trent needed to be fast tracked in boot camp due to his age. He will be 29 on May 16 and MUST arrive in San Diego on or before his 29th birthday in accordance to the age restriction of 18-28.
Just over two weeks later we received word that he needed a medical waiver and more testing was required before he would be accepted. He had a visit with his personal doctor per military orders and all tests came back normal. Again, this information was sent to headquarters while another waiting period ensued. He was then informed he needed to report to MEPS again for an MRI and doctor visit. Once again, he was told all looked normal BUT official review and acceptance of a medical waiver needed to come from the top! Another long 2 and half weeks later, we learned that he was cleared! This final clearance came at the end of March with the May 16 deadline drawing closer.
On March 28, 2016 Trent traveled to MEPS once again to be sworn in as a Marine Corps recruit. On the morning of March 29, 2016 Trent woke up as a civilian and ended his day as a United States Marine Corps recruit! What a huge hurdle for him to accomplish and what a huge sense of pride for his family! Thankfully his Dad and Step-Mom were able to be there to support him as well as capture the moment on video! I am bursting with pride knowing the admirable career my son is about to embark on!
Soon after meeting with his recruiter in December, he went to Bay City to take his ASVAB (Armed Services Vocational Aptitude Battery) test for placement. We were all pleased with his score of 92 which would help ensure he would be accepted.
Training began in late December with his first introduction to warrior training on a Thursday afternoon. What was detailed to me sounded grueling, and this was only training! Thankfully he has stayed physically active throughout his life, so he was able to take on the challenge and feel confident that warrior training would get easier; and it did! In addition to warrior training on Thursday afternoons, he also began showing up for daily workout sessions at the office with other recruits to build up his endurance and strength.
Next was his first trip to MEPS (Military Entrance Processing Station) in Lansing for his physical in mid January. His journey to MEPS began on Monday morning leaving from the office via a contracted government van with other recruits. The process is, the recruits are dropped off at a hotel where they may room with another recruit. They are on their own until 6:30 a.m. the next morning when they are picked up and delivered to MEPS. Each recruit may have a different purpose upon arriving at MEPS. Some may be there to be sworn in, others to ship out and some, such as Trent for physicals, etc.
Following MEPS our first waiting period began... Trent was flagged with a medical issue that could have prevented him from being accepted due to a kidney stone he had 8 years earlier. The doctor performing the exam cleared him, however it was headquarters that needed to give the final approval. The waiting time would be 2-6 weeks. This news was disheartening considering Trent needed to be fast tracked in boot camp due to his age. He will be 29 on May 16 and MUST arrive in San Diego on or before his 29th birthday in accordance to the age restriction of 18-28.
Just over two weeks later we received word that he needed a medical waiver and more testing was required before he would be accepted. He had a visit with his personal doctor per military orders and all tests came back normal. Again, this information was sent to headquarters while another waiting period ensued. He was then informed he needed to report to MEPS again for an MRI and doctor visit. Once again, he was told all looked normal BUT official review and acceptance of a medical waiver needed to come from the top! Another long 2 and half weeks later, we learned that he was cleared! This final clearance came at the end of March with the May 16 deadline drawing closer.
On March 28, 2016 Trent traveled to MEPS once again to be sworn in as a Marine Corps recruit. On the morning of March 29, 2016 Trent woke up as a civilian and ended his day as a United States Marine Corps recruit! What a huge hurdle for him to accomplish and what a huge sense of pride for his family! Thankfully his Dad and Step-Mom were able to be there to support him as well as capture the moment on video! I am bursting with pride knowing the admirable career my son is about to embark on!
Thursday, March 31, 2016
My Son
On May 16, 1987 I gave birth to a 6lb, 6oz baby boy. As most anyone reading this blog that is a parent will concur, that day and the days to follow are filled with extreme joy, undying love and an abundance of promise for the future.
Through the years this sweet baby grew and changed to become a teenager with his own thoughts, dreams, and goals for the future. Then one day that very teenager confessed to me he would like to join the military. Speaking those words stopped me dead in my tracks and my heart skipped a beat (ok maybe skipped many beats)! As a parent, I knew then and still believe now, there is nothing more admirable than to have my child voluntarily choose to serve his country, yet deep down inside that fear of loss both then and now, ways heavily on my heart...
Discussion of joining the military ensued and life continued on the path that I had envisioned for him. High school graduation followed with several college attempts without completing a degree. Next was the idea that a career type job would fulfill him as he pursued a career in the retail vitamin/supplement industry. After several years he still felt he wanted or needed something else, not really knowing what that something is/was. We all surmised, surely a move to another state where his older sister was residing would help him find himself as he began a career in the golf industry (one of his true passions) and this would be the answer. Again, not finding the right fit, he moved to south Florida enrolling in the PGM program and working again in the golf profession, but once again this wasn't the answer. His most recent change was a move back to Michigan to reconnect with his friends, convinced this would help him figure out his life path at age 28, right? Wrong, he was still unsatisfied and still continuing to immerse himself in military research, movies, readings, news, etc. Then one day in December 2015 I received his call with the news that he was joining the Marine Corps. After more than 10 years of searching for a life path, I now believe he has finally found it, and so begins the
This blog will serve as an informational tool for family and friends who wish to follow Trent's journey through boot camp and beyond as begins as a recruit and earns the title of a United States Marine.
Through the years this sweet baby grew and changed to become a teenager with his own thoughts, dreams, and goals for the future. Then one day that very teenager confessed to me he would like to join the military. Speaking those words stopped me dead in my tracks and my heart skipped a beat (ok maybe skipped many beats)! As a parent, I knew then and still believe now, there is nothing more admirable than to have my child voluntarily choose to serve his country, yet deep down inside that fear of loss both then and now, ways heavily on my heart...
Discussion of joining the military ensued and life continued on the path that I had envisioned for him. High school graduation followed with several college attempts without completing a degree. Next was the idea that a career type job would fulfill him as he pursued a career in the retail vitamin/supplement industry. After several years he still felt he wanted or needed something else, not really knowing what that something is/was. We all surmised, surely a move to another state where his older sister was residing would help him find himself as he began a career in the golf industry (one of his true passions) and this would be the answer. Again, not finding the right fit, he moved to south Florida enrolling in the PGM program and working again in the golf profession, but once again this wasn't the answer. His most recent change was a move back to Michigan to reconnect with his friends, convinced this would help him figure out his life path at age 28, right? Wrong, he was still unsatisfied and still continuing to immerse himself in military research, movies, readings, news, etc. Then one day in December 2015 I received his call with the news that he was joining the Marine Corps. After more than 10 years of searching for a life path, I now believe he has finally found it, and so begins the
Yellow Footprints on my Heart
Photo: RecruitParents.com
This blog will serve as an informational tool for family and friends who wish to follow Trent's journey through boot camp and beyond as begins as a recruit and earns the title of a United States Marine.
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